Resources for family worship

Don’t forget that a few years ago I wrote a number of articles on children in the life of the Church… some of those might still be useful in thinking all this through. You can find them here… and they cover a range of issues from helping your children to memorise Scripture (and doing it with them!); avoiding a ‘Pharisee’ mindset; teachng children to worship… (there are also articles on baptising children and children taking Communion).

Somewhere in amongst them all I wrote about how while Scripture is central and foundational, it isn’t the only thing we should be doing in family worship and discipleship. It is a great place to start, and simply reading a passage and asking children what they think it means, then praying with them about that, is likely the most foundational structure for a time of family worship. But our children will benefit hugely from being exposed to the rich and powerful heritage of faith and discipleship in the Church of today and yester-year. And so many organisations are serving the Church well in providing resources which are easy to use and to adapt. Biographies of those who have walked the path before us can always be encouraging. They can be read as a family, or the same life can be read about in biographies that are suitable to the ages of different children. We often read a biography together as a family. It requires zero preparation (except that I’m at a stage of life where I need to get my glasses!). We keep the Biography in the kitchen, and after a family meal, I can easily pick it up and read a few pages, before we clear up. We can ask questions en route, and sometimes the books even provide those!!

If you haven’t come across it, the Torchlighter series provides a different way of learning about the lives of Christians from the past. They provide a series of short animated biographical films, often with follow up activities. A lot of their stuff is online, though you can buy the DVDs if you prefer! Why not have a look at https://torchlighters.org/, or you can find quite a few of them on Youtube!

There are a huge number of age-differentiated biography series, from the boys / girls who changed the world series; through to books written for older teens. A scroll through an online Christian bookstore will give you plenty of options.

We can also read about the biography of the Church. Church history is an amazingly varied story to read or engage with. There are tales of great theological battles, revivals, tales of heroism and sacrifice, political and military intrigue, entrepeneurship, courage, the building of civilisations and the breaking down of others. Now that our kids are older, we’re reading through a larger book together called ‘Church History in plain language’. It’s written almost as a novel, and gives an overview of the global Church through the centuries. It’s very readable, and all of our kids are able to engage and access it at different levels. There are other books that deal with Church history in accessible ways but with a different focus. Roger Steer’s Church on Fire is a good example (for older youth), and there are almost too many to mention when it comes to certain chapters of Church History such as the Reformation, or the rise of the Monastic movements, or Christian social reform movements... have a look and see what catches your eye!

Or maybe you could try getting a handle on the experience of the Church today? There are worse things you can do that give your kids an awareness of the Global Church and the issues and challenges she faces. Try Open Doors Youth, or Kids of Courage (the children’s arm of Voice of the Martyrs)…

All of this and more can play into the ‘curriculum’ we are presenting the children and young people as part of our family worship and discipleship. It’s about finding something that works for you as a family… but there are so many options and resources that you can try during the search!

Enjoy.

Resources

You’d be surprised how straightforward it is to begin helping your children think through their faith and deepen their discipleship. It’s one of those things that can sound overwhelming, but once you start, it’s actually much less intimidating than you’d think.

Like many things with children, it helps to start when they are younger. Even if you only manage to do something once or twice a week, if they grow up recognising that intentional discussion about what it means to follow Jesus as individuals and as a family is part of family life, then you’ll find it much easier to develop as they grow older.

Over the next few weeks, we’ll be suggesting ideas and resources that might be helpful for you. They are suggestions… and they might be helpful. Families are unique things, and what works for one may not work for others.

One tried and tested method over the generations has been to follow a simple question and answer format, that lays out the main realities of Christian belief and life in age-appropriate ways. Following this has many advantages. The first is it requires very little preparation. At the end of a meal, pick the book up, and read the next question… talk about it… read the answer and maybe look up the suggested Bible references… there might be follow-on discussion. Pray. And then clean up after the meal!

For older children and young people there are a number of great resources that follow this format and that have stood the test of time. They have worked for generation after generation, and loads of Christian families still use them today. You might, for example, want to work through the Heidelberg Catechism. The advantage here is that there are plenty of resources that help you work this through at different levels. Its available as a pdf here. And you can buy additional books that will help you unpack the answers (e.g. Kevin De Young, The Good News We Almost Forgot).

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You could use ‘To Be A Christian’, which is the resource we use at DTP. Advantages of this would include the fact that this is already in use at MIE, and so we are becoming familiar with it. I teach to it week by week, so there is plenty of opportunity to get a handle on it, and to gain confidence in using it. It forms the basis of the Catechism Cat Q&A we use in services, so your children & young people will recognise what’s going on! And it is self-consciously Anglican, so fits really well with how we do Church. You can get it for free here: To Be A Christian

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If you are starting out with little ones, the best resource of this kind is: ‘My First Books and More’ by Carine MacKenzie and Philip Ross. This is the book we give families when they bring their children for baptism at MIE. And for the first four or five years, it’s pretty much all you’ll need! You can get a copy here.